Patao Basics - Chapter 1

Hey!

Since I don't have too much time on my hands right now, I will lay down a few postulates, which will be explained in detail in my forthcoming posts:

1. One of the most important secrets to attracting women is to be attractive to yourself first.

2. Women are lovely beings, respect them. But at the same time, know who you are and what you want. This will help you gain respect from women, and reduce chances of being brushed aside because, let's face it, nobody likes being dumped. This is the cornerstone of building an attractive self. Mind you, this is going to go a long way in shaping your personal life. Confidence, masculinity, free thought and speech and openness are the keys to success with women in India.

3. Don't fret over a failed relationship / a failed proposition you made. Look at it this way, the more failed relationships you have, the more you know what NOT to do. This would help you get the girl you've always wanted. Now you even know where NOT to look.

4. Love and Romance, though fulfilling, MUST NOT be given more importance than other things in life. Think about what would make you feel better about yourself; could be hitting the gym, playing sport, yoga, meditation, movies. Learn to relax and introspect. Once you find yourself and you know how to master your own mind, then the world of women are awaiting your esteemed presence!!

4. Relationships need to be enjoyed, not worked upon - Life is short, learn to enjoy it. Be smart and don't get into a situation where you need to constantly "work things out". I'm sure that if you think through your head and not through other anatomical organs, you'll know what I mean.

5. Don't go chasing a woman just because it gives you a thrill. A major pitfall with this is, that once you get the girl, you'll want to chase another one. Remember, being a player might be fun, but needlessly breaking someone's heart could only get you into trouble. Besides, in India not too many women choose to date players. Though they are incredibly attracted to such men, they can't even think about being in a relationship that constantly threatens them into insecurity. They choose the safer option; to 'settle' for a nice guy who would do anything for them at the bat of an eyelid. Those women know what they want, and peace to them. There certainly are ways to work around this, though.

6. Don't chase a woman beyond a point. Let her chase you instead. Women are known to be VERY vulnerable when they know that someone likes them. typically, they would start paying more attention to what you say or do. Let them know in no uncertain terms that you like them. But DONOT expect them to say anything. This would also increase your chances of getting the chick, when in the first place, you never really wanted them. You were only just... "expressing" yourself. ;-)

More to come soon...Meanwhile, feel free to post your thoughts or questions. We're only here to help you. :-)

Cheers!!

The Pied Piper