Why did she break up with you?

Here are a few questions to ponder over:

When was the last time you were with a woman? Don’t remember?
When was the last time you were DUMPED by your date or girlfriend?
Hang on, did she really dump you or did you dump yourself out of your chances?

If I were you, I wouldn’t waste too much time on sulking over a sour or bad relationship. It’s all a waste of time and energy and involves too much self-pity. If you observe carefully, self-pity is the primary cause for your diminished self-image. The more you sulk and mourn your loss and how life is unfair to you, the more you will hurt your self-image.

Life for you would be much easier if you treated your sour relationship as a bad investment, although this might sound very harsh.

There’s only one way to strengthen your confidence. Respect yourself and your choices. Without that, you’ll be prone to hurting yourself time and again. The idea is to NOT let go of your conscious self, even while falling ‘head over heels’ in love with someone. This will help you build a mature, positive and emotionally stable relationship. Research today is showing that love is, after all, a bunch of chemical reactions in your head. So, really guys, focus on how to improve your chemistry, and not work on ‘mending the heart’. :-D

Who knows, you're old flame who had stabbed you in the heart earlier, might fall head over heals for your new and improved self. And then maybe, you wouldn't want her any more. But in either case, you have the power of choice. :-)

Work on it.